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What Do Your Adult Children Need?
I was recently visiting with another professional in the community who teased me about wanting pro bono services for his staff. I quickly informed him that everyone wants free therapy...
What Do Your Adult Children Need?
I was recently visiting with another professional in the community who teased me about wanting pro bono services for his staff. I quickly informed him that everyone wants free therapy...
Forgiveness
When it comes to forgiveness I think we have it all wrong. Most people refuse to forgive someone who has hurt them, thinking that it will "serve them...
Forgiveness
When it comes to forgiveness I think we have it all wrong. Most people refuse to forgive someone who has hurt them, thinking that it will "serve them...

How Can I Trust Again?
Frequently my clients tell me that they have been so hurt in the past that they don't think they can ever trust others again. Their reaction might be to withdraw...
How Can I Trust Again?
Frequently my clients tell me that they have been so hurt in the past that they don't think they can ever trust others again. Their reaction might be to withdraw...

The Facts About Relationships
Many people come to me when they are having relationship problems. They are usually unhappy and want help to improve their situation. Sometimes I say things that they really don't...
The Facts About Relationships
Many people come to me when they are having relationship problems. They are usually unhappy and want help to improve their situation. Sometimes I say things that they really don't...

Are Your Boundaries Healthy Ones?
Building relationships with other people is a complex process. Over the years I have noticed that individuals fall into one of three very different categories based on the boundaries that...
Are Your Boundaries Healthy Ones?
Building relationships with other people is a complex process. Over the years I have noticed that individuals fall into one of three very different categories based on the boundaries that...

Love Your Neighbour
Over the years I have heard horror stories about neighbours who have had broken relationships that resulted in various forms of battle. Fences are erected, family pets abused and people...
Love Your Neighbour
Over the years I have heard horror stories about neighbours who have had broken relationships that resulted in various forms of battle. Fences are erected, family pets abused and people...
What Or Who Do You Trust?
Lately I have heard people state that we are in "troubled times". Stock markets have tumbled as companies with decades of stability face financial disaster. The mortgage meltdown, rising gas...
What Or Who Do You Trust?
Lately I have heard people state that we are in "troubled times". Stock markets have tumbled as companies with decades of stability face financial disaster. The mortgage meltdown, rising gas...

Remorse Or Repentance?
Frequently I am asked to work with clients who have behaved in a manner that leads to serious consequences. When someone assaults another person, abuses substances while working a safety-sensitive...
Remorse Or Repentance?
Frequently I am asked to work with clients who have behaved in a manner that leads to serious consequences. When someone assaults another person, abuses substances while working a safety-sensitive...

Are You Having an Affair?
Years ago, people used to talk about having an affair in a totally different context. They would send engraved invitations to people in the community, ensure that the catering would...
Are You Having an Affair?
Years ago, people used to talk about having an affair in a totally different context. They would send engraved invitations to people in the community, ensure that the catering would...